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Five of Wands
Symbols in the artwork
Five figures each hold a wand and move in different poses. Above, the wands cross, and the figures' gazes and bodies are all directed in different places. It looks like many people have stepped up enthusiastically, but they are not yet in sync. This scene does not mean someone's hostility or an upcoming fight. This card is about confirming what you want to achieve together when opinions differ, and finding ways to harmonize.
Sources and interpretation
I referenced the original depiction of competition and struggle. The original reversed meaning relates to lawsuits and disputes, which differs from modern interpretations of conflict resolution or avoidance.
Written with reference to Rider–Waite–Smith symbolism and modern interpretations.
A. E. Waite's original text · Tina Gong / Labyrinthos modern interpretation
Upright
Competition and conflict · Divergent opinions · Competing energies
If opinions differ, first listen to what each person wants.
Core meaning
The Five of Wands symbolizes competition and conflict arising from clashing ambitions and positions. While it can represent competition that leads to mutual growth, it also includes the image of energy being scattered through bickering.
The crossed wands bring to mind a situation with abundant energy but misaligned directions. Rather than trying to respond to every opinion immediately, try to select just one issue to discuss right now. It can also help to predetermine a speaking order or a decision-making method. While you can learn through competition, try not to lose sight of your original goal by focusing only on winning.
What to keep in mind
Do not treat all differing opinions as a fight. Reflect on whether the desire to win is making you forget the original purpose. You can respect a person even if you do not agree with their proposal.
One small step today
Choose one area where opinions differ and write down what each person wants. Suggest a standard by which you can decide together.
A question to consider
Are we talking about the same problem? Are we wanting different things while using the same words?
A thought for today
If we can learn the different reasons, we can also slowly find ways to be together.
Reversed
Easing conflict and cooperation · The attitude of avoiding conflict · Lingering tension
Speak what needs to be said, and for now, pause any similar arguments.
Core meaning
The Five of Wands reversed can be read as a desire to resolve conflict and cooperate, or an attitude of avoiding uncomfortable clashes. Even if things appear quiet on the surface, issues may remain, and the original text also suggests an escalation of disputes.
It might be a process of stepping back from unnecessary competition after having discussed things sufficiently. You don't need to participate in every argument. However, check what was decided and what questions remain when the conversation ends. Suppressing your thoughts is different from stopping unhelpful debates. Reflect on what choice is necessary for you right now.
What to keep in mind
Don't hide all of your feelings just to avoid conflict. Conversely, consider if you are bringing up arguments that have already ended. It would be good to share what absolutely needs to be said and what can now be left alone.
One small step today
Choose one postponed request or recurring argument. Write down one thing you absolutely need to ask, and one behavior you wish to change next.
A question to consider
Is the current quiet because you both agreed, or because there are still things that need to be said?
A thought for today
If you know when to speak what is necessary and when to stop, your heart can feel less weary.
Tarot offers a way to reflect on yourself through its symbols. Read it as a point of reference, not a certain prediction of the future or another person's feelings.